Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Durand Bernarr: The New
Durand + J*Davey= Refreshing Artistry
Okay, aside from being hooked on the whole formula-thing {something I like + easy to do= you'll see it often} I'm also hooked on discovering "The New". You know what "The New" is. It's the combination of delightful anticipation and pleasure of experiencing the tangible thing that you never knew existed. I call it The New and yes I am an addict.
While reading reports about pest control {don't ask} I logged onto YouTube to listen to some of my favorite J*Davey music. Now don't take this the wrong way but don't feel so bad if you haven't heard about J*Davey. Truth is that most people haven't but when you finally hear their music you'll never forget it. I heard my first J*Davey track a few years ago {thanks FREE Magazine} and I've been on these kats ever since. As great as J*Davey is they are not the reason I'm posting this mini installment. I came across this dude named Durand Bernarr and I haven't been able to read another sentence within my pesky pest control reports since. Durand has officially made my train of logic jump off the tracks.
No offense to Durand but at first glance you wouldn't expect such a well-developed voice, full of character and control to burst out. It more than bursts it deceptively intertwines you and by the time you realize it your jaw has hit the floor. You might as well give up by then because he's gotten you. You're bobbing your head while being pleasantly amused. Well that's what happened to me.
There are a series of Durand videos online and he even has a few tracks on his Myspace page but I'm particularly smitten by the candid videos of him covering some of my favorite J*Davey tracks on YouTube. He's dope and silly which is a dangerous combination because he's always in the position to prove assholes wrong {I think most gifted people are always in this position...myself included}. Homeboy is the positive personification of why I don't listen to the radio {especially down here in ATL...more on that later}. I would've never found out about his fresh, untainted talent if I relied on "V 1-0-whatever " or "W-90-give me a break" to supply my "New" fix when it comes to music.
Keep singing...I mean sangin' D. It's {blessings, success, fame, artistic fulfillment, creative recognition, etc.} coming to you.
-elbj
Oh yeah and for those who know me if you hear me say/sing "And we're drivinnnggg" in the near future you'll know where I got that from.
And scene.
Friday, February 29, 2008
Hip-Hop Theatre Festival, Commonwealth, Black History's History, Social Atelier & TED's Sir Ken Robinson
A month ago I was in church and a guest pastor was delivering his sermon. All in all he was pretty good but something he said kind of rubbed me the wrong way. He had a 5-8 minute monologue about language and more specifically how young kids have butchered the English language with slang. His examples (rather out-dated) were "bad meaning good", "dope meaning exceptional" and the phrase "sick, crazy dude" meaning a guy who is remarkably impressive. Funny, right? Some what. Although the entire church laughed and enjoyed his jokes about slang and his admittance to being out of the loop I realized that the entire church congregation was made of people at and over over the age of 40. Then something happened. When the pastor continued with another anecdote he said the word sucker-- "sucka" to be exact.
The inquisitive cultural observer and challenger of authority in me quickly pulled out my phone, got online and looked up the definition of sucker.
Sucker- A shoot which arises from an underground shoot or root of a plant. He didn't use sucker in that context. Here's the definition of sucker the pastor was referring to; Sucker- Slang: any person or thing.
I was shocked {and delighted} that the pastor who just finished passionately politicking about how we should denounce the use of slang and how we should come together as a country to reclaim our common language {which isn't really ours anyway much like everything else in this country} just dropped a big ole slang bomb without it even occurring to him he did so.
That's when it hit me. The issue wasn't with the use of slang, it was with the use and creation of slang words he doesn't understand. It wasn't a slang thing at all it was a generational thing. This chasm between my generation and the pastor's isn't anything new but I am impressed at how one organization in particular is bridging the generational gap in an artistic way-- the Hip-Hop Theater Festival. I know the theater may not be for every one but I would like to think that the number of potential theater-goers in my generation would increase if they knew depictions of relevant subject matter was being created and performed with them in mind. That's the beauty of the Hip-Hop Theater Festival.

I found out about this amazing initiative while watching Current TV {if you aren't watching Current by now you have missed the train} and my mouth hit the floor. I was so drawn to the connection this organization was making between hip-hip culture {CULTURE people not the corney "bling-bling, make it rain, rolling on dubs" simpleton antics crammed down our throats over radio stations} and performance art. To me the strength of the Hip-Hop Theater Festival is their understanding of their target. They work with and speak to members of the hip-hop generation while serving the young, urban communities across the U.S and around the world. Check out the website to learn more and if you have a short attention span jump over to the Hip-Hop Festival Current TV pod. Lazy rascal.
Commonwealth: Anything but Common
Anyone who knows me KNOWS I likes to look good which means I pay attention to clothes. All kinds. Personally I call my style "Project Preppy" because I switch it up from jeans and sneaks to loafers and a vest any day and pull it off everyday. Of course I stuck out like a sore thumb in my little small town and there really weren't too many places to shop so we all ways hit the malls up in VA. I wish Commonwealth was open then.


Commonwealth {owned and operated by cousins} is a fly retail space in downtown Norfolk, VA {not even an hour from my hometown} and they also have a spot in Washington D.C. If you value eclectic pieces, original design and underground street fashion labels then Commonwealth is the spot for you. In addition to dressing those who love to dress {including me in the near future} they also hold events so if you're in the area check them out. There is also a great interview of one of the co-founders {Omar Quiambao} written by Michael Bercasio with Inquiringmind Magazine. It's a great read so check it out and get your browse on at the same time.
VA stand up!!!
Black History's History
I, for one, don't relegate the accomplishments and contributions of my people to this country to 28 days {or 29 depending on the year}. I always find a way to celebrate Black history everyday. Hell, I even started the Black History Quiz Bowl at my high school {whether they continue it or not I don't know but your boy is to thank for that one *wink*}. Much to my surprise I was slightly disappointed and ashamed at how little I knew about the origins of Black History Month itself.
This is when my good friend Current TV {I told y'all don't sleep on Current} stepped in and gave me the rundown on the come up that was Negro History Day, then Negro History Week and eventually Black History Month. Check it out.
Social Atelier: Fashion as Change Agent
I've already confessed my affinity for fresh clothing {see Commonwealth} but the combination of fresh clothes and social change makes elbj a very happy boy. Social Atelier is a company that uses fashion to increase social awareness and increase change pertaining to key issues facing our culture(s) today like war, AIDS, global warming and poverty. The SA donates a portion of their proceeds to certain causes and this season's proceeds of SA sales will be donated to the Solar Cooker Project. "This project significantly improves the safety and survival of women in the refugee camps by alleviating the need for them to go out and seek cooking fuel, an action that puts them at severe risk for assault, rape, and even death. (http://www.socialatelier.com/Awarness.html)".
Check out video of Social Atelier's latest collection. Social Atelier is an example of social entrepreneurship and fashion at its best...that is until I step onto the scene. Y'all ain't ready for that yet.

TED & Sir Ken Robinson
I have to admit when I heard about TED I thought it was some dude who had an amazing ego and demanded people spell his name with all upper case letters. Don't ask where I got that from. Much to my delight TED is far from that. TED has been going on since 1984 and stands for Technology, Entertainment and Design. Since inception TED has been an organization and conference which brought bright minds from all three of those fields together to share their wisdom. Over the years what started as a humble conference has turned into a global powerhouse of intellectual, cultural, technological and inspirational resources. I really want to go to TEDAfrica later this year...hopefully a brother can get his pockets right. {Yeah I said it}.

Yesterday a good friend of mine {whatsup RoRo!!} sent me a link to someone who has the potential of being my next Man Crush {see last post}. A midst a daydream, reading about

If you are one who is motivated by insight and inspired by truth then you will absolutely enjoy what Sir Ken and the rest of the TED Talks have to offer.
Quote of the Day
“A fully functional multiracial society cannot be achieved without a sense of history and open, honest dialogue.”
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Barack Obama: My First Politican Man-Crush
A friend of mine helped me come to terms with what she called a "man crush" I have on Senator Obama. It never registered with me before but now in hindsight all the signs were there. I was just too smitten to take notice.
In the midst of "ambitious drug dealer turned music star", "the tragic hero ex-con", 'the marching civil rights celebrity", "angry brother man", "keeping it real dude", "black when it suites me" guy, "the professional athlete", the "I got mine so you get yours" black millionaire, "post millennium pimp" and other "characters" of black manhood I am ecstatic that Barack has elevated beyond the stereotyped limits of what a black man is "supposed" to be and has affixed himself (and those around him) to the blessing of what a black man may become. He's the manifestation of activated positive potential. This brother is bad.
Like Toni Morrison said, "In addition to keen intelligence, integrity and a rare authenticity, you exhibit something that has nothing to do with age, experience, race or gender and something I don't see in other candidates. That something is a creative imagination which, coupled with brilliance, equals wisdom."
Do your thing B.
-elbj
Okay enough pole riding. To see how B has managed to blanket pop culture to become the poster child of change agents, no pun intended, {you'll get it when you scroll down} check out what's below.
Photo: Damon Winter/The New York Times

One of two Shepard Fairey designed posters of Barack Obama.

Barack Obama designed Air Force Ones by Van Taylor Monroe. This kat seriously needs a store.

A Barack valentine card. Its sold out already so don't even think about trying to order any. Check out the Chicagoist for more Barack art or... "Barart".
Come on, you know it was coming.
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Kehinde Wiley, Free Rice, Best Cities for Young Professionals, Colin Munroe, Freezing Grand Central and Events 101
Kehinde Wiley: Remixing Fine Art
I first witnessed the amazing talent that is Kehinde Wiley when I was living in Brooklyn. He executed portraits of the honorees for VH1's 2005 Hip Hop Honors and each piece was displayed {as posters} at certain subway stations. I was blown away. I damn near missed my train because I was hypnotized by his attention to detail and his ability to add a new dimension to the black image via art and imagery. I also had a chance to see a real piece of his work at a First Friday function at the Brooklyn Museum. It was refreshing to see all types of people admiring Kehinde's "Napoleon Leading the Army Over the Alps" {below}.

Free Rice...with some Vocabulary on the Side
I have to admit the first time I played this game I ended up donating over 2,600 grains of free rice to the United Nations World Food Program. Let me explain. Free Rice is a website that simply allows you to fight the plague of world hunger while building your vocabulary. It's your simple vocabulary guessing game that helps you step up your word game AND for every correct answer Free Rice donates 20 grains of rice to the United Nations. Real talk. Help people, around the world, eat and obtain prodigious palaver in the process. That's right, a brother has been getting his Free Rice on. Give it a try.
Young Professionals...move here.
In this order: New York, San Francisco, Atlanta, Los Angeles, Washington D.C, Boston, Seattle, Minneapolis, Philadelphia and Denver round out Forbes' list for the top 10 cities for young professionals. I can personally vouch for New York and Atlanta. "he list was compiled by tracking where the graduates of top universities across the country ended up 10 years after commencement, where the best business opportunities exist, which cities had the most young and unmarried people, and which cities paid young professionals the best. {Matt Woolsey, Forbes.com}. This is good information for any recent graduate/young professional to know but what about young professionals of color? Don't worry. I got you.

Colin Munroe: The Dopest "Flashing Lights" Remix in the Game

I'm not talking about the corney Paul Walls or white people who try to imitate black culture. No, I'm talking about the people who are just effortlessly cool and manage to slide in and out of swaggerdom like sliding in and out of underwear {maybe that metaphor isn't as classy and it sounded in my head, no?} This is the vibe you get from Colin Munroe when you check out his version of "Flashing Lights" titled "I Want Those Flashing Lights".
To me, Colin showed a lot of these rap kats how to do a remix properly. Its more than just dropping your lyrics {however executed} over the existing beat. Colin made this joint his OWN and it's Hot....even the video is hot. You really can't be mad at him and his team. Toronto, Canada stand up!! To find out more about Colin and his music check out his Myspace page and check out the "I Want Those Flashing Lights" video while you're at it.
Freezing Grand Central
This is why I will always be madly in love with New York City. This is probably why people consider me an eccentric individual but I still think this is cool as hell. A group of people in NYC got together and decided to freeze in place for a short period of time in the middle of Grand Central Station. They didn't move at all. Not an inch. The whole thing shook some bystanders up and others were completely amazed. After the two minutes were up all of the frozen participants resumed to their prior activities as if nothing had ever happened. You have to see it to appreciate it. Check it out.
Events 101
Hopefully everyone had a banging New Year's celebration to welcome in 2008. Did you bring in the New Year in church? In an intimate setting with that significant other? A party? Most likely everyone was in some type of party atmosphere and there is one thing about a party that rings true...either it’s the bomb {remarkable} or a dud. Sure, when holding one there is pressure to organize and pull off a one-of-a-time kick-ass event but imagine if you had to do it on a weekly basis for a group of people who have come to expect the real deal and will call you out on your -ish if you 'effed up.

That's what today's Guest Genius, Lorna Pinckney {center}, does in Richmond, Virginia at Tuesday Verses: Open Mic Experience. By day Lorna is the CEO of Upside Promotions and Design by night she holds the creative and soulful heart of Richmond in her hands by giving musical and poetic artists the venue to share their passion and hone their craft in front of an amazing audience {all while eating banging food}. Lorna is going to give us the insight to creating, organizing, executing and maintaining a great event that resonates and inspires as well as entertains.
TGS: What was your inspiration for creating Tuesday Verses?
TGS: How long has Tuesday Verses been running?
TGS: What steps did you take to ensure your event would be a success?
TGS: How important was it for you to understand your audience?
TGS: On average, how many visitors does Tuesday Verses have a week?
TGS: Diverse audience or like-minded audience, which is better?
TGS: Is location important to you? Why or why not?
TGS: How often do you rely on your people/client relation skills? Has your people skills/client relation skills changed since Tuesday Verses began?
TGS: In your words, what does the audience get out of a Tuesday Verses show?
LP: Love, inspiration, acceptance, camaraderie, intellectual growth and a drive to be better people in their own personal lives. We always talk about making growth in whatever area people focus on. We create a family structure where you have support and they always inspire you to keep going.
TGS: Describe how Verses has grown since inception and how you’ve adapted along the way?
Thanks to Lorna for being today's Guest Genius and if you find yourself in the Richmond area on a Tuesday night feel free to check out Tuesday Verses at Tropical Soul, 314 N. 2nd Street Richmond, VA {804} 771-1605.
Quote of the Day
"If I told you a duck could pull a truck shut up and hook the muthaf*cka up!"
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Crown Ministries, I Love Black People, The Harlem Tea Room, Winter Skin Tips, and The Gentlemen's Fund
Crown Ministries: Jesus is a financial planner too?!
Not only is He your co-pilot but He can balance a mean check book. All jokes aside, Crown Financial Ministries is a financial management workshop based on principles of the bible applied to money managem

I Love Black People
My people at Shadowflack Apparel struck a chord with these shirts. Although this self-loving and positive movem


Would You Like Some Tea with your Uptown?
If you haven't noticed I'm pro-black and definitely pro-black business. I love to support African-Americans who have made the transition from employee to employer and I definitely admire Patrice Clayton a

Winter Skin Tips...Because the Hawk is Hell on Your Skin
I know January is practically over and in some places Spring may come early but Winter

Julyn Derrick over at About.com has a lot of helpful info to keep your skin in prime condition during colder climates. Like using lukewarm water instead of hot water because hot water depletes the skin of natural moister, using creamy moisturizers and bypassing the drying soaps and not forgetting that your lips need moisture too- use a lip balm people! And for my fellas the team over at MSN Lifestyle: Men suggest using shampoos that

GQ's Gentlemen's Fund
You really can't get mad at the combination of style and philanthropy. I read about GQ's The Gentlemen Fund a few months ago and have been impressed about it ever since. It doesn't hurt that my boy John Legend is the spokesperson either.

The Gentlemen's Fund's mission is to "raise support and awareness for five cornerstones essential to men: opportunity, health, education, environment, and justice." Like I said, you can't get mad at this. The Gentlemen's Fund is comprised of 5 individual charities Career Gear, DIFFA: Design Industries Foundation Fighting Aids, A Better Chance, Global Green USA and Justice for Children International. The Gentlemen's Fund is dedicated to improving the welfare of men and children all over the world and although the organization is 1 year old I'm sure that GQ will be impacting a lot of lives in the future through their works. When you get a chance check out The Gentlemen's Fund and if the spirit moves you donate some paper {or suits in Career Gear's case} to the cause.
Quote of the Day
"Focusing your life solely on making a buck shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential."
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Voltron Sneakers, FREE Magazine, Make It Right, Rocawear Beef, & 7 Style Secrets

FREE Magazine
It's exactly what it sounds like. A free...magazine. Duh. This magazine is the brainchild of a dude I can honestly say I admire and ever since my first encounter with FREE I've been smitten. Todd N. Triplett and PKHDMC, in partnership with Parks-Hall {a non-profit arts organization} helps FREE Magazine reach the cool masses, by focusing on art, fashion, music, luxury, current events and professionalism, while offering exposure to independent artists.

Make It Right
Just when you think the media and this current administration has created enough ill-will towards the surviving citizens and mindset of New Orleans/Gulf Coast something like Make It Right comes along and on its tail something like the NO protest gone of December 20 happens . What's important is that progress is being made in New Orleans and unfortunately it isn't happening at the rate, and in the fashion, we'd all like.
Brad Pitt and Stephen Bing have teamed up to create Make It Right. This organization's purpose is to provide 150 low-income houses for citizens of New Orleans. 13 architecture firms are

Seems like things are looking up for the N.O, right? Not so fast. A good friend of mine told me about this protest that took a violent turn. A group of citizens chose to physically show their disapproval of the demolition of a set of New Orleans public housing properties and police made forceful attempts to control the crowd by pepper spray and tazers. No matter what happens in New Orleans it seems that tension is always at the surface and if anything that is a sign of passion and commitment. Say what you want about New Orleans but its evident that the citizens of that city and even the region have a pride and love for their home that is not understood by many. To find out more about Make It Right and ways you can help the progress to improve New Orleans take a jump here and for contrast's sake check the CNN clip of the protest here.


Rocawear it at Your Own Risk
Before some of you pull out your Jigga Man Official Fan Club membership cards just sit back and read the rest of the blurb. In Jan of '07 the Humane Society of the United States conducted some test and revealed that Jay-Z and Rocawear were selling faux-fur clothing that feature fur from raccoon dogs on the Rocawear website. Apparently this is a regular move in the faux-fur game cause Diddy was accused of doing the same with his Sean John women's line. Damn. Wow.

Get Your Grown Man on with 7 Style Secrets
When I had my hair twisted in college I took it upon myself to perform a small experiment. If you didn't know I'm here to tell you that dreads/twists have a bad wrap in society {especially in the south} so I wanted to see what I could do to change people's perceptions in my small town. For one week I wore nothing but baggy jeans, timberlands and over-sized shirts to school, work and all over town. As you've probably guessed I was treated like and talked to like I was someone who wasn't educated...a thug basically. I'm far from that. The following week I switched the game up and wore fitted clothes, button-down shirts, loafers and I even bought a pair of reading glasses with a very weak prescription. The only constant variable from week 1 to week 2 was my hair and the way I was treated was a complete 180 from the prior week. My hypothesis was correct...fashion, style, clothing, whatever you want to call it has the power to attract positive or negative reactions. That's why I'm always cognizant of my appearance..that and I'm a Kappa so I make it my business to be on point all of the time.

I came across this article on MSN.com written in partnership with Best Life magazine {great magazine by the way} about 7 style secrets for men. For some reason fellas think that getting your wardrobe up always means being uncomfortable in tight clothes or wearing clothing that doesn't represent their personality. Where in the hell did this come from? It's far from being true and some of the most stylish brothers know that true style means you put your own mark on conventions of fashion. We as black men excel at this but as of lately I've noticed a few brothers have steered way off track.

Of the 7 secrets I'm only agreeing with 5 of them. Not because I'm defiant but because they don't fit my personality but this is good info for any kat who is thinking or working on getting his style game in order. Every man needs a new suit. "The easiest way to upgrade your office look instantly is to add a suit that isn't corporate gray" and one way to separate yourself from the pack is to add a fly workbag with the get up. Leather is always in style {Wilson's chelsea contrast stitch messenger to the right}. No offense but it's not cool to be wearing a backpack to work. In addition to the new suit try coppping a gig that pushes your envelope a little bit. Nothing crazy like Ye at last

Quote of the Day
"If a free society cannot help the many who are poor, it cannot save the few who are rich."
Monday, December 10, 2007
Paper Saving Gift Giving, Another Bush F-up, A Saggy Pants Law?, Keyshia Cole & Interviewing 101

Give a Gift. Hold on to your paper.
Another President Bush F-up; are you surprised?
That’s a fact. This time he managed to eclipse a major issue in society- the homeowner mortgage crisis- by reciting the wrong phone number for homeowners worrying about their rising mortgage payments. Instead of directing citizens to call 1-888-995-HOPE, for the Homeownership Preservation Foundation, Mr. President told Americans to dial 1-800-995-HOPE. This number belongs to the
The Saggy Baggy of it All
While checking out the Complex.com blog I came across what Neil Richards, first amendment expert of
Is this another attack on current hip-hop culture or is it the kick in the butt this young generation needs? Who knows but I will tell you this: if any of these guys’ mothers is like mine she ain’t dropping one penny or spending a second in jail for some below the butt cheeks, can’t barely walk, showing all of your ass nonsense.
I’m just saying. Check out the rest of the article from the AP.
Keyshia Cole: The Way She Is
I have a confession to make. I’m in love with Keyshia Cole. Not in THAT way you pervs. I’m saying that I admire her for her talent, hustle and patience dealing with her fam. Now don’t get me wrong because my family ain’t perfect, by any means, but then again we {my father’s side anyway} ain’t showcasing our coo-coo bananas family behavior all over television.
This is the second season of Keyshia Cole: The Way It Is... on BET and I have to say that I’m late to the show. I admit that I slept on the first season but I’m hooked on the second season. This show is a great story about passion, determination, family, unconditional love and humanity. Keyshia’s dealing with an ex-con and ex addict mother, a sister who is anything but ready for suburban life and a full time career. I don’t know how she does it.
For someone who doesn’t watch too much of BET at all I can say that if you aren’t watching this TV show then you should. It’s all about Keyshia’s struggle…and that’s the way it is. The season finale aired December 11, 2007 but I’m absolutely positive BET will be airing repeats in the near future. They do what they want to on that channel.
Interviewing 101

Looking good on paper is one thing but being great in person is something totally different. I meet a lot of people who ask me how to do the right things in an interview. I give them the best advice I can but all I end up doing is telling them what works for me which may not translate well to their personality. I decided to devote this 101 Session to the skill of interviewing and how to prepare for and have a successful one. Today's Guest Genius is Lynda Wicker (Lynda isn't in the picture to the right by the way...come on people), the director of Human Resources at JWT Atlanta in Atlanta, GA. Lynda has over 10 years experience in Human Resources. She is a great interviewer and totally knows the in's, out's, do's and don'ts of the interview. If you ever wanted insider information about the essentials of interviewing you're in luck.
T.G.S: How long have you been working in Human Resources?
Lynda: I've been in Human Resources for 12 years. I really have to thank my sister-in-law for introducing me to this field. Early in my career I was an office manager but I was always trying to help people. Before I knew it I was pursuing a career in HR and started at PBA Atlanta as a Human Resources Assistant. I just love helping people find the right career and realize their career options.
T.G.S: What are some of the biggest myths/misconceptions people have about interviewing?
Lynda: This is why I think my next career move will be career counseling. I really think people should stop with the manufactured behavior. It's okay to be nervous but that's not reason to be so cliched. I want to have a conversation with the person I'm interviewing. The one-word answers or the cliche' responses, {I'm a people person...my weakness is that I try to hard} don't impress me. I really wish people would stop saying those in interviews. Have a resume in hand and be ready to talk about your experience. Truly understand that the job is about results and not how hard you tried. Work is about results so give examples of how you showed initiative and have key points of view {i.e. your style of work, what you like about the company and you're personal goals}.Be articulate. Be able to clearly express your thoughts in a concise and thorough way. One thing I've noticed with the millennial workforce is they, sometimes, come to an interview too casual. I know this is the age of casual but you have to be smart about it. I've had some people come in t-shirts and jeans. It's such an easy thing not to screw up. If you are unsure about a company's culture wear a suit. You can't go wrong.
T.G.S: Are there common mistakes young professionals make during interviews?
Lynda: Not preparing enough: a lot of young professionals don't do their homework before coming in. There's is no excuse for no preparation. During interviews I notice that a lot of young professionals feel they should come across as if they know everything and that's wrong. If you're interviewing for an entry-level position you can't know everything there is to know about the position you want or the company you hope to work for. Although the seasoned professionals think they know everything too. It's important that interviewees have questions for the interviewer. This is the interviewee's chance to get conversational and learn a lot about the company and please don't just ask the "company culture" question. Do your research and come up with good questions.
T.G.S: We've already touched on this but what are some of you're interviewer pet-peeves?
Lynda: The stock answers. Rehearsed answers. I like it best when people are comfortable so, this is such a cliche, but BE YOURSELF and be honest. Dress nice but not to the point where you come across as a perfectionist. That's a big one for me. Believe it or not "I'm a people person" is still a big problem.
TGS: What are some of the commonalties of your better interviews?
Lynda: Well, for me, first interviews are usually phone interviews and they are sometimes awkward when you aren't talking with a natural conversationalist. I like experienced people, people who really listen to questions and answer them thoroughly and honestly. I like when people have good eye contact and they are honest about their capabilities. You can tell when some one is genuinely interested and not treating HR as an invaluable gatekeeper.
T.G.S: How about the mysterious follow-up time. How do you advise people do handle that?
Lynda: I'm definitely a believer in sending a thank you note or thank you email within 24 to 48 hours of the interview. There are some people who don't like thank you emails but I don't think they are a problem. Follow-up is good period. During the interview ask the interviewer about the follow-up process. If someone promises to follow-up with you and they don't fulfill their promise don't panic. There are a number of things that are going on within a company that can side-track the HR director and hiring efforts. Some companies have strict interviewing cycles and its good to ask about the interviewing process during your interview so that can give you a follow-up strategy. Now if you realize that 4 to 6 weeks have gone by just send another note expressing your interest in the position if you're still interested. I like to call them gentle reminders. If its been more than 6 weeks and you haven't heard anything then that means you probably didn't get it.
Thanks to Lynda Wicker for being today's Guest Genius.
Quote of the Day
"Exceptional people have exceptional battles, they go through exceptional problems, they go through exceptional chaos and they have exceptional deliverances. Be careful about putting your foot on an exceptional person."